Since it's International Women's day this week, I'd like to focus this post on something all of us ladies will all have to go through: the menopause. Hopefully, I will be able to infuse some positive thoughts about this subject.
In
the West, women unconsciously learn that there is something inherently
wrong with us. Hormones are supposed to turn us into
nasty beings at least once a month during our reproductive years, and
with even more venom at puberty and during the
menopause. We are accused of being “hormonal” every time we get
to show our anger and frustration.
In
Chinese Medicine, the workings of the female body are believed to be
much more intricate than those of the male body. This
is partly because of the complex waxing and waning of hormones
throughout
the cycle; and the major changes that happen in the
female body at different stages of life. This is even before we begin
to talk about changes during and after pregnancy!
Nevertheless, the concept of female hormones as sources of “evil”,
and creators of illness and syndromes does not exist.
In fact, the years approaching and during the menopause, probably the
most difficult part of most Western women’s lives, are
known in Chinese medicine as “the second spring”.
During this time, there is a natural decline in
certain energies of the body that may cause symptoms but which
doesn't necessarily
produce much discomfort to most Eastern women. It is
about a new start, after we have accomplished our physical and most of
our emotional growing and we are ready to invest in
our spiritual growth. This is not to mean that our bodies can be
forgotten,
this is a time where physical enjoyment can also be
pursued. With the stresses involved around the possibility of
pregnancies
out of the way, women can experience a true “sexual
liberation”. So how can it be that we get such a bad deal
when menopause is concerned?
The answer to this is complex:
Ageing: not for the faint-hearted |
Other,
more tangible factors that have an impact on us at
the time of menopause are stress, long-term
contraceptive pill intake, other health issues, and of course our diet
and lifestyle.
Most of us have experienced how easily affected our
periods are at times of stress, illness or exhaustion. Little wonder
then
that the pressures of modern life and the stresses of
busy work and family lives will have an impact on the big hormonal shift
that is the menopause. This does not mean that we
cannot correct our ways and enjoy the benefits of a healthier life-style
at any point of our life.
Chinese
Medicine understands that during the menopausal years, the energies
involved in creating the menstrual cycle are in
decline. Thus, the reproductive energy of the Kidneys, where the
energies
of Yin (the cool, moist, nourishing aspect) and the
Yang (the warm, dry, active aspect) originate, is naturally diminished.
The usual lack of balance between activity and rest –
we work too hard, play too hard and spend hardly any time recovering
our strength until we are so exhausted we can’t even
sleep- particularly harms the Yin energy creating an effect of
excessive heat and over-activity of the Yang aspect
even if it has also been damaged. This is the basic root of symptoms
that
are typically seen during the menopause: symptoms of
heat (yang) especially in the afternoon and night, the times when the
yin is supposed to be strongest, night sweats,
excessive emotions, dryness, etc. Individual factors like long-standing
stress
or other health issues will affect the symptom picture
differently depending on the case, but an experienced Chinese Medicine
practitioner should be able to get an accurate
diagnosis and offer the appropriate treatment.
A second Spring: what we should aim for! |
So
there is
help at hand for our menopausal symptoms. However, we
should re-consider our whole definition of the menopause and perhaps
make an effort to let go of our fear of aging. I know
it is scary and we want to carry on looking and feeling young and
beautiful.
We can still be beautiful, but it is a whole different
beautiful from the youthful fresh beauty that not even plastic surgery
can bring back. With a little work, we could finally
see beauty in our grey hairs and in our lines and then something
exciting
might happen: we may find ourselves living our second
spring..
Your articles are all so well written! Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words Judy! I'm glad you have enjoyed what I write, I hope you find it useful as well. All the best
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